BENT is a vibrant and vivacious youth event held every other month at the SF Citadel. BENT is hosted by Shay & Jade. This event has a loyal following among young San Franciscans and attracts many unique attendees who find the energy and lusty appeal of BENT sets it apart from other dungeon events. BENT is the SF Citadel’s longest running and largest dungeon event, routinely drawing well over 250 of the city’s sexiest perverts to play and socialize.

Each BENT event is punctuated by a funny, tongue-in-cheek, and/or sexy skit, performance, or review in connection to the event’s theme.

Every BENT has a theme, and costumes are not required but are encouraged! Check the FetLife BENT group or the calendar at for specific event details and costume suggestions. If you don’t wish to costume, basic black, fetish, leather, lace, lingerie, or anything sexy/dressy will do!

For the purpose of this event, “youth” is 18, 19, 20′s and 30′s.

Join us in the city's premier play space! We'll provide play structures, scene music, munchies, water ... and ambiance. You bring your implements of choice, and your hot energy!

Admission: $20 per person

BENT features:

  • Tantalizing performance in the social area at 10:15pm!
  • Interactive & entertaining play space orientation from 8:30 - 9:15pm (doors open at 8:20pm) — HIGHLY recommended, especially for "newcomers," and offered at no extra cost.
  • Amazingly well-equipped playspace!
  • Theme adult films showing on the big screen all night
  • Aural environment by AuralIncarnation
  • A photo zone (with house photographer Michael) in the back room (consent of everyone in the pic is required and photos will ONLY be permitted in this strictly sectioned-off area)
  • "Play only" zones – BENT is full of exhibitionists and we welcome voyeurs, but observers will be limited to certain areas. You'll still be able to see & be seen, we promise!
  • Over 300 attendees filling the playspace with hotness!

New to the community, coming to BENT solo, or just want to meet a bunch of new people? Join us the day before BENT for BENT Kinky Speed Connections, hosted by @MxDaveyFaye and Psychokat!

Volunteering is a great way to get involved and meet people... and a one hour shift gets you free entry to the event! E-mail This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. you're interested in volunteering! Be sure to specify in the subject line that you're volunteering for BENT :-)